From time to time, I get random emails from people I don’t know who have never attended Revolution. Some people ask for prayer. Some people ask for help. Some people are pastors who ask for a sermon manuscript.Some people want to ask questions – not out of curiosity – but to determine if they’d like to even visit a Revolution Sunday service.
I used to feel the pressure to answer every question in a long and articulate manner trying to jump through every hoop and satisfy every concern, but I’ve finally realized that it is not always useful. Sometimes it is, but oftentimes – it’s a waste of my time.
For instance, yesterday I received such an email with the following questions…
- Where did you receive your theological training? What degree(s) have you earned?
- Where have your previous ministries been and for how long?
- Who are your favorite Christian authors?
- Who are your favorite preachers to listen to?
- What is your opinion of psychology?
- What seminaries would you be comfortable recommending to young people considering ministry as a vocation?
- How many people were baptized in your church last year?
- Which kind of preaching do you prefer?
- What are your thoughts regarding a “seeker sensitive” approach to ministry?
- What is your view of the Emergent Church Movement?
It’s the usual crazy week before Christmas, and I just had this sense that no matter what I responded with – it just wouldn’t be right or good or enough. I don’t mind clearly answering the questions, but I knew deep down that this person would not be a good fit for what God is doing within the movement of Revolution.
I responded quickly to find out if he was looking for a church or writing a research paper. Yep, he was looking for a new church. Obviously by his questions, he’s been around the church world quite a bit. As usual, I Googled his name. Wow – a number of book reviews and web posts blasting authors who I happen to know personally.
Here was my response…
Hi _________,
I wouldn’t normally say this, but I’d encourage you to look for another church to attend. Based on your questions and what I’ve seen from your online postings, I can guarantee you that we wouldn’t be a good fit.
God bless,
DavidP.S. I think Parkcrest (www.parkcrest.org) would be a wonderful option.
Actually, I didn’t include the Parkcrest line, but Mike and I keep threatening to send people like this to one another’s churches…lol.
That’s the first time I’ve ever said that. I felt a little guilty and little freedom all at the same time. I guess I’m in a place where I don’t have much energy to deal with trying to jump through a bunch of religious hoops for over-churched guys like this. Yes, some of these questions are very important, but I could tell that there was something below the surface that was driving the agenda.
By the Scripture he quoted at me in his email response, I was right.
Just a little window into my daily world…